Welcome to the website of Shoreline Funerals. Perhaps you are visiting our page to prepare for, or to deal with the loss of a loved one, or you may just be curious. What ever you reason for visiting we trust the information provided here will be helpful. Feel free to contact us for further information, advice and quotes.
Immediate Concerns
From our experience we have found that families, no matter how well prepared, will feel overwhelmed, confused and unsure of what to do next. Here is a quick reference guide for when you are faced with the reality of death. Generally speaking there are 3 crucial initial concerns:
Death usually takes place at a hospital, hospice or a private residence, but occasionally elsewhere as in the case of road accident. The initial concern then is the REMOVAL of the deceased.
In the case of a hospital the medical staff will certify the death and either instruct the contracted Undertaker to facilitate removal to their mortuary, or request that the family supply them with the name of their chosen Undertaker. Most government hospitals have a contracted Undertaker who will temporarily removed the deceased to their mortuary until the family decides on their preferred funeral company. Provided this is done within 72 hours the contracted Undertaker cannot charge for this initial removal. If the hospital has no contracted Undertaker, as with most private hospitals and hospice facilities, the family is free to nominate whoever they wish to facilitate the removal. While some private hospitals and hospices have preferred service providers they cannot insist that you use a particular company. Once the removal has taken place the Undertaker would normally give the family some time to process the passing of their loved one before making contact to continue with necessary arrangements. Similar procedures would apply for most retirement homes.
In the case of death occurring at a private residence the doctor overseeing medical care would need to be informed. He/she might come to the residence to certify the death. If the death was to some degree expected the doctor may decide to approve the removal telephonically provided a medically competent person is present at the time of death, or the paramedics have been in attendance and provided a ‘Declaration of Death’.
If the person was an outpatient of a local hospital with a pre-
In the case of an accidental, unexpected, unexplained or suspicious death whether this takes place at home, in a hospital or elsewhere the authorities (i.e. police and/or medical professionals) will refer the matter to a government medico legal lab. In these cases the deceased is removed to the state mortuary with a post-
If in any doubt feel free to call us on 084 710 1234 at any time, or email info@shorelinefunerals.co.za for more information.
Administrative issues and DOCUMENTATION requirements are usually the next major concern for families.
A ‘Notice of Death’ (i.e. BI1663 form) is the main document needed. This is supplied by the doctor or, in the case of a state mortuary situation, the pathologist. It is the Undertaker’s duty to collect this form from the doctor when ready. Certain sections need to be finalised by the family and Undertaker before being taken to a local office of The Department of Home Affairs for registration. Home Affairs will then issue the abridged death certificate to the Undertaker who will pass it on to the family.
The original Identity Document of the deceased must be supplied to the funeral company as soon as possible. Copies will be made and the cancelled ID returned to the family. For administrative purposes the Undertaker will also need a copy a family member’s ID. This family member will sign all relevant documents. This should preferably be the ‘Nearest Relative’ but another family member, family friend/representative or Executor can also fulfil this role.
In some cases (see above) paramedics will be required to supply a ‘Declaration of Death‘ particularly when no other medical professional is present at the time of death. Under certain circumstances when death occurs outside of a hospital/hospice/retirement home situation the South African Police Services (SAPS) will also need to provide families with an ‘SAP180‘ form before the deceased is released to the Undertaker.
Other important documents such as a ‘B Form‘ (in the case of a cremation) and a ‘Burial Order‘ (supplied by an Undertaker) will be required. The acquisition and use of these documents are within the funeral company’s area of expertise.
While not as pressing as the above 2 points SERVICE DECISIONS are generally at the forefront of most families minds when losing a loved one. There are a number of key considerations here:
To a certain extent the family sets the pace in terms on service arrangements however all arrangements must be confirmed with the funeral company before the finer details are finalised. The behind the scenes acquiring of documents, booking cremation times, burial plots etc. may not always agree with the family’s timeline. Added to this is the availability of hearses, Undertakers and other essential personnel. If the case has been referred to the state mortuary to avoid disappointment it is best not to set final dates and times before the deceased is actually released to the funeral company.
When making service decisions what is appropriate and practical at the time needs to be evaluated carefully. The final wishes of the deceased obviously have to be considered and it would be natural to want to honour their memory. The need for family and friends to find a sense of closure and mourn in an appropriate way also has to become part of the decision making. A balance must be found between what it realistically possible, the wishes of the deceased and the needs of the mourner. We would suggest seeking the guidance of your Undertaker, priest/minister, or someone who has recently gone through this decision making process. A good place to start might be our ‘Service Options’ page.
A final urgent consideration for many today is the cost implication. While the Undertaker’s fees remain fairly consistent it’s the choices made from the available options that impact the cost of a funeral. For more information see our ‘Budgeting’ page, or for a quote email info@shorelinefunerals.co.za or call 084 710 1234.
We have included some helpful tips when faced with the loss of a loved one:
Don’t panic. While this may seem like an obvious thing to do we need to remind ourselves that while there is much to be done it can only take place one step at a time. Don’t get ahead of yourself. As you deal with the immediate issues the next steps and decisions will become clearer.
Don’t feel pressured. In moments of grief you might be pressured by well meaning people to make decisions before you are ready. There are naturally certain time constraints but by and large you set the pace and determine what and how things are done.
Share responsibilities. You may feel that due to your close relationship to the deceased that it is you alone who should make the decisions. The reality is there may be others willing to assist and share some of the responsibility. Often another family member or family friend is better positioned emotionally to handle necessary administrative and planning tasks.
Seek guidance. You will find that others have been through similar situations and you can learn from their experience. Feel free to call us on 084 710 1234 if you need advice or guidance. You can also email at info@shorelinefunerals.co.za
About Us
With an office in the south and mortuary facilities in the south and north we are able to effectively and efficiently operate in all areas of Cape Town and beyond. With an emphasis on consultations in your home we are geared to meeting you in your home where you are most comfortable, especially at a time of emotional stress. We also deliver all relevant documents (e.g. Death Certificate) and the Ashes to you within the Cape Town area Shoreline.
Our aim at Shoreline Funerals is to give you the necessary information, support and advice in your time of need. Our hope is that with our assistance the unfamiliar and somewhat daunting task ahead will be made a little easier. We pride ourselves on a compassionate and personalised approach that attempts to offer you a well rounded service within your financial parameters. We seek to honour the final wishes of your loved one, while at the same time helping you find suitable ways of finding closure.
On the practical front, as Undertakers we offer a full service from the initial removal and preservation, to the ultimate finalisation of important documentation. We work within your personal, family and spiritual framework to provide a fitting farewell, and ensure all practical and administrative components are efficiently and effectively seen to.
Meet Us
Meet Mark & Ashleigh Wortmann, the family in the family-run business of Shoreline Funerals. With 12 years in the funeral industry, we are well practiced at providing a tailored service for each family. We pride ourselves on a compassionate approach, offered in a highly personal way, always bearing in mind the budgeting requirements of each unique scenario.
Mark Wortmann
Mark has honed his personal and compassionate approach to doing business and helping families in part due to his extensive work in people centred professions, but more specifically from his observations and experience gained in working in the funeral industry. He saw a need for a far more personalised and fluid approach than the traditional model appeared to offer. Progressive in his vision for the company, he has developed an approach that provides the bereaved family a tranquil forum to make difficult decisions in a comfortable and thoughtful manner.
Ashleigh Wortmann
Client relations has been central to all Ashleigh’s work experience and her role at Shoreline Funerals is no different. She shares the vision of creating a company which helps families in their initial stage of grief by offering solutions in a personal and non-pressured environment. Her abilities in office management and planning help provide efficient and effective administrative processes which ultimately eases the burden of grieving families. Her ability to offer compassion while finding creative solutions for families is key to the success of Shoreline.
Service Options
We have a variety of service options available. Contact us for more information.
Budgeting for the unexpected
When we are in the midst of a loss we don’t always know where to turn or what to do when it comes to budgeting for a funeral. Here is a guide to assist you with this part of the planning.
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Testimonials
Raeesah Achmat
I would like to Thank Mark Wortmann & Shoreline Funerals for the professional service & compassion showed to myself & family when we lost our beloved Mom & Grandma. Very swift service & honestly dealt with every query I had with patience. I very highly recommend Shoreline Funerals.
Candice Milstein-Nodder
This is long overdue, but thank you so much to Mark from Shoreline Funerals who assisted me and my family with my Dad's passing - absolutely prompt, personal and compassionate service from start to finish, answering all our questions and handling everything for us - thank you so much from the bottom of our hearts
Cindy Reynolds McNamara
Thank you again Mark for your soft hearted and warm and genuine care you gave me with my husband's passing 2 weeks ago, and with my mum's passing in Oct 2017. I couldn't imagine a better soul to do what you do. Paddy's ashes you handed over to me this morning will be scattered off Simonstown on a boat, and I will say a thank you to you xxx
Garth Spencer-Smith
Mark did a fantastic job in arranging my mom’s recent cremation and related matters (e.g. the nightmare admin required by Home Affairs!!). Every step of the way he was extremely supportive and professional, which helped our family tremendously in this difficult time.
Frequently asked questions
The common misconception is that the doctor (or other medical professional) provides the death certificate. Although some still refer to the doctors paperwork as the ‘death certificate’ it is officially known as the ‘Notice of Death’ or BI1663 form. It is normally the Undertaker’s duty, once it is completed, to collect this form from the doctor or professional nurse. It is then completed with the family and taken to a local office of The Department of Home Affairs by the Undertaker for registration. Home Affairs will issue an abridged death certificate to the undertaker, who in turn passes it on to the Next of Kin or Executor.
It usually takes a few days to get the death certificate. While doctors strive to complete the necessary documentation in good time there can sometimes be delays. Once the paperwork is in the hands of the Undertaker the process can move rather swiftly. Expect to wait anywhere between 2 to 5 days under normal circumstances
The funeral company will normally source the relevant medical paperwork (e.g. Notice of Death from the doctor) and will need to see the Identity Document of the deceased. Copies will be made for Home Affairs, the crematorium or cemetery, and for other purposes. The Undertaker will cancel the ID document and return it to you. The member of family completing the necessary forms will also need to produce their ID document.
A coffin is required for cremation. This is both for practical and health and safety reasons. The crematorium works under a strict set of regulations and will not accept anyone not presented in a well constructed coffin made of combustible material.
Crematoriums have systems and standards in place which ensure that human remains are handled in a dignified and correct manner. In a nutshell; when the Undertaker delivers the coffin and the signing over process is completed, the coffin is allocated a unique identifying number (stamped into a metal tag) which accompanies the coffin through the entire process. The identity tag is placed with the ashes which the Undertaker collects and hands over to the family. Only one coffin is cremated at a time.
With families scattered all over the country and world it is understandable that many would want to wait before going ahead with a service. Most funeral companies understand this dynamic and are willing to delay proceeding within certain limits. Cold storage facilities are normally included in the initial costing. This may allow a reasonable period of between 5 to 10 days before daily charges will be applied, but this period depends on each company’s policy.
Burial plots are sold by most City run cemeteries when they are needed rather than ahead of time. Previously this was possible and many families still own empty burial plots. Private cemeteries (e.g. Legacy Parks) do still sell family plots
You might prefer to use the services of a different funeral company which better suits your personal requirements and financial constraints. You are under no obligation to use the funeral company who facilitated the initial removal unless you have signed a mandate. They may charge a removal fee if you do decide to use another undertaker. Certain hospitals (e.g. most government hospitals) do make use of a contracted funeral company to do the initial removal. This company simply supply the initial manpower and cold storage for the hospital until the family decides which funeral company they prefer to use.
As the family you will usually set the pace. After the initial removal phase you may want half a day or more to process things and to begin exploring appropriate service arrangements. To avoid double bookings please confirm with the funeral company before finalising funeral dates and times. Most funeral companies will give you a courtesy call within 8 to 12 hours of the death of a loved one.
If you have an idea that something may happen while you are away it is best to make a few pre-
This is unfortunately a common issue. In most cases a person’s marital status has changed, whether through marriage, the death of a spouse, divorced or remarriage, and the system at the Department of Home Affairs has not been updated. The misconception is that a change of status happens automatically. The reality is that someone whether it is the spouse, the lawyer, the marriage officer etc. needs to lodge the change at a local Home Affairs office. This can be done by providing them with evidence of the marital status change such as a divorce decree or death certificate. In recent times the Identity Documents of married couples have been ‘linked’ and the death of one will automatically updates the marital status of the other.
Usually if a person has been under the care of a doctor or medical facility there is an awareness of their medical condition and the necessary paperwork will be issued on death will few real concerns. There are times however where the medical professions do not feel confident in pronouncing a cause of death without further investigation. In these cases the person will be referred to the forensics department at a state mortuary to undergo a post-
It is preferable that the Nearest Relative completes the necessary documentation but this is not essential. If they are unable to do this the task can fall to another family member, close friend, Executor, or other mandated individual or institution.